"They say goldfish have no memory; I guess their lives are much like mine -- and the little plastic castle is a surprise every time." Little Plastic Castle by: Ani DiFranco
This song quote comes to mind a great deal lately. I have been caring for a parent with Alzheimer's Disease. The ability to create long term memories, perhaps even short term memories, is no longer possible so this quote captures the experience well.
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I watched with humbled awe as my SIL took up arms against cancer for husband, eventually to be defeated last month. One of the things I wondered was how she did with no place to "talk" honestly of her struggles, not just his. I hope this blog gives you the place to say all the things you want to, without worrying about the feelings of those who aren't going through your struggles.
I heard from Kate that your mom passed away. I hope you are doing okay.
Erin,
Thank you for your comments. We are doing okay. In Feb last year, she was diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma and passed in August with only a week of bed confinement. Mom did not suffer too much since we had Hospice and the pain management they can offer.
So we go on. This anniversary time of the diagnosis has been a little hard. But my family and friends and in your case, friend's family provide much comfort. Thanks.
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